Question: Help me stand up for myself?
Ok, people at my school consider me a “popular” and they say I hang out with the “popular” people. Well, my “friend” Brittany is like SUPER popular and she thinks she knows everything. Well I’m really pretty (I’m not bragging, I promise. It’s hard for me to even say that because I have really super bad low self-confidence), but we hang out with some girls that are popular but aren’t so pretty. I have a great personality (I have to say. That’s one thing I DO like about me!) but they always seen to invite the other girls along with them. My mom said it’s because they’re jealous of me, but I don’t think so (Even though I AM prettier than Brittany; guys are inlove with her because she is honestly a STICK with a HUMONGOUS, like HUGE HUGE HUGE butt!). She has dark brown hair, she’s pale, has ugly makeup, and has holes in her face. Like forreal, HOLES. From where she “scratched herself when she was a baby” apparently all over her face! Well, she’s always mean to me. I’m tired of it. She says I’m “fat”. I wear a size 4 or 6 in jeans!! That may be chubby, but NOT fat! I don’t want to call her names. But I want to sound mature and ask her to please stop talking about me. Help me with some stuff I could say to her? Thanks.
Oh, and we got in a fight one time which I’m sure is the reason she hates me but I said, “Honey, I can lose weight. But you can’t fix that ugly a*s face of yours!” Which I know was really immature.
Answer by julia
They probably are jealous! And a size 4 to 6 is not chubby that’s perfect. Don’t let her get to you. I know girls like that but i don’t pay them any mind. Just remind yourself that your prettier than her.Go up to her and pull her away from her friends ( girls seem to act tougher when they have people around them) and start off talking to her nicely and ask her why she acts the way she is tell her how you feel but don’t make yourself sound like you feel less than her because then she has a weakness over you.
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