I need extreme advice?
Question: I need extreme advice?
I like this guy. He I very good looking though. We kindof have a thing, but I’m afraid if I date him I will have low self asteem the whole relationship. Like I’m a little bit fat. Not that much though. And I’m afraid that if I dated him, his friends would make fun of him like “your dating her?! She’s fat.” and I don’t want that. Please help
Answer:
Answer by apple guava
You need to like yourself first. Or it will be difficult for others to like you.
Maybe he likes slightly fat girls. Maybe he doesn’t. Find out.
Then figure out whether you are going to change your body figure for him if it’s not his type.
But at the end of the day, a lot of your self esteem comes from within, not from your look. Sure look contributes, but not all.
What do you think? Answer below!
Oh no, please don’t be insecure about that. We are our own worst critics, and most times what we feel so self-conscious about others don’t even see, because they are worried about their own insecurities(even good looking guys). That being said, I just read an article today that said most guys actually prefer girls to be 20-30 lbs heavier then the girl’s ideal weight. This is not a problem for him, so don’t worry what his friends may say, and quite honestly if his friend’s opinions mattered more to him then you, well he wouldn’t be the one for you anyway.