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I have a very low self esteem and am fat can you please help?
Question: I have a very low self esteem and am fat can you please help?
okay so i just turned 13 last month.
im 5’5 and i weigh about 116 lbs
Answer:
Answer by Schultzie_OL
joining a sport or martial art builds a lot of self esteem and is great for the body. try judo.
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what can i do about my low self esteem?
Question: what can i do about my low self esteem?
im 5’10 and i weigh about 155. i feel huge compared to my sister. shes 6’1 and 150 my familyy says i have the polish side of us. i have really broad shoulders. everyone tells me im pretty. but i dont feel pretty. how do i feel better about myself?
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Answer by Avery
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My girlfriends self esteem help?! ladies?
Question: My girlfriends self esteem help?! ladies?
Ive been dating my girlfriend for about 10 months now. I think shes so pretty funny and beautiful. She has very very low self esteem. Shes told me she used to have eating disorders when she was 14-15.
Shes not fat at all, but shes not a stick thin either shes curvy- I like curvy with big butt i’m black I cant help it! ha ha
Anyway, shes so down on her self sometimes, always like “im fat” “im ugly” But its mostly about her weight. Every single time we go out to drink and a party shes crying to either me or her friends and always mentions that. Yesterday we went out to a friends club and I had to carry her to the car cause she got to drunk and just rramblingthe whole way home about being fat and why i’m with her.
It kills me to see the one I love hurt like that.
What should I do? Ladies is this normal or a little extreme? thank you!!
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Answer by lelocks
unfortunately, it’s sort of common, but still you should get help for her! I would talk to a counselor or someone who helps with eating disorders. she might be mad initially, but once she’s cured, she will realize that you helped her and thank you.
remember, eating disorders can kill people, so no matter how hard it seems, get help for her!
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How to fix a low Confidence level/self esteem problem?
Question: How to fix a low Confidence level/self esteem problem?
Simple as that I’m only 15, I hate how I look, act, seems like I cant talk to girls that I actually like, dont wanna do sports even tho I love being active (fear of losing?)
.http://s1096.photobucket.com/albums/g326/qwertyasd321/
I used to be really big but i lost a bunch of weight, so I guess in a sense I still feel fat “inside”. Some people are going to say its a common problem, its not. Tons of friends, boys and girls both, but never been in an actual relationship out of fear of rejection. Sorta just wanting advice to be happy with myself, not to be a wuss and fix it. I constantly let this problem consume my life, and when i think about it and everything im missing out on i get even more angry at myself.
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Answer by aeboy85
Dude, you’re only 15, you have plenty of time to start the whole dating scene. Join sports, hang out with friends, be a funny guy, and forget about all that fat stuff. I looked at ya pics, you’re a good lookin guy and should have no problem at all getting a date or talking to girls. If anything they probably think your too cute and have someone your interested in. Put yourself out there, grow some confidence, and the ladies will be flocking to you!
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HELP!! How to get over having really low self esteem!?
Question: HELP!! How to get over having really low self esteem!?
Hey everyone, I met this really cool guy online and he asked me out on a date (my first date EVER and I’m 20)!! The thing is, I am really insecure and I have this strong urge to say no because I keep asking myself
a) why does he like me
b) he won’t think I’m pretty when he meets me
c) I’m too fat for him
etc etc etc
All my life, I’ve grown up hearing things like “you’re fat” or “you’re not pretty” etc from my mom, dad, and other family members and I just don’t know how to get over being so insecure anymore.
Here’s a picture of me… could you tell me if my parents are right? Am I too ugly and should I change myself before going out on any dates with a guy? Thank you!
http://i259.photobucket.com/albums/hh318/hichicool/hhhhh.png
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Answer by Kaska
You are so pretty! Your family was just being weird when they were saying those things to you. If you really like this dude just go out and have fun with him like he was one of your friends, adding in some flirting always helps 
Since you meet him online make sure it’s safe. Have fun with it!
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low self esteem? suggestions?
Question: low self esteem? suggestions?
seriously. my self esteem has been down ,, a lot lately..
like .. i just look in the mirror and feel fat all the time. i feel like i am not pretty at all.. and everyone always tells me how pretty i am..
i am 5 2 and about 107 pounds.. so iknow thats not considered “fat”
what are some suggestions on making my self esteem better.. i hate it. idk if i am just depressed or what the heck is up with me..
i am 18 btw.
i know.. its snowing now where i live.. and i used to run every day when i could.. but now its way too cold.. i think that that is the problem too.. treadmills kill my knees.
i do volunteer 2 days a week at the school, teaching 1st and second graders.
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Answer by davexbilly
have sex with a lot of boys
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My friend as really low self esteem, but shes pretty. I need others’ opinion to let her know that she’s pretty?
Question: My friend as really low self esteem, but shes pretty. I need others’ opinion to let her know that she’s pretty?
Im pretty sure she’ll be pissed when if she finds out about this, but she’s absolutely GORGEOUS and she doesn’t believe me, or anyone else.
We’re only sophomores in high school.
And she’s always saying “I’m so fat” or “Look at my pimples” or “I’m so ugly”
She’s always trying to diet and no matter what i do or say she wont believe that she looks fine.
I need help, I dont know what to do anymore to try to get her self esteem up.
p.s. i SWEAR thats not me, just fishing for compliments. Im in the picture actually, i just blurred out my face
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Answer by Jake
Shes pretty, I would not use Yahoo for your emotion problems. try blogs like mine.
BLOG: http://jacobgraysadvice.blogspot.com/
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How can I get over my low self esteem?
Question: How can I get over my low self esteem?
I never really bother to like guys, or say “Oh, that guy is cute!” when I’m with my friends. I always call myself ugly, and a lot of people say that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. I wanted to believe that, but my best friend told me I was ugly, her MOM said I was ugly, some other people say it too. A lot of people are saying “Ha ha your fat!” or “How much do you weigh? XD” to me. I usually just laugh it off, but recently I’ve been getting emotional to the point where I hate myself and think of locking myself in my room and never getting out. I’m a good student, and I have a lot of friends, but usually I’m tired of worrying about keeping my head up so I don’t get a double chin, or wearing baggy clothes so I don’t look as chubby. I want to be able to go out and not worry about when people are looking at me. I’m chubby, not obese. I’m a tomboy because wearing larger clothing and looking like a guy will make people not think “Look at that fat chick!”. I want to wear girl clothes, and I want to act girly. I’m above average tall for my age too. I know it doesn’t suit me, and I’m worried if I’m wasting my time worrying about things like this. I don’t know what to do with myself.
Answer:
Answer by the R
do something silly.. like?
shout at me, baby!
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Q&A: My girlfriend has low self esteem issues.?
Question: My girlfriend has low self esteem issues.?
My girlfriend always thinks im lying when i say shes gorgeous. she thinks she’s fat and all this and all that. ive tried laying off the compliments and avoiding the topic of how she looks, but she will randomly be like “im so fat” and i try and avoid it but she keeps on. Her self esteem is not limited to her looks btw. she thinks shes a horrible girlfriend and i should leave her. She has been like this for the entire year we’ve dated. Ive gotten used to it but lately its been getting worse. I’ve tried giving her space and not being nosey, but when i do ask her stuff i get one worded responses like “idk”, “idc”, “nuthin”, “hmm” it seems like shes refusing to let me in. I dont wanna break up with this girl i love her to death and when we have good times its my ultimate high and nothing can be better 
, but that’s starting to come less and less. She’s just depressed 24/7 and its stuck in her head that shes a horrible girlfriend and cant be happy. i just want her to be happy so it can be like when we first met. (again i love this girl with my heart so please dont suggest ending it, just things i could do to make her happy)
Answer:
Answer by Oh Robby those eyes!
Take her to a therapist or get her on medication…it sounds like depression to me.
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Teen, low self esteem, needs help.?
Question: Teen, low self esteem, needs help.?
Okay, so I went to the doctor(NOT MY REGULAR) and he said that I’m overweight. Think though, I’m an african american teenager and african american’s have more muscle than other ethnicity’s. MY REGULAR said that I’m getting taller so I’m in a healthy weight range. The doctor that I saw today, pulled out the BMI Chart(which I HATE) and said that I was overweight, but what really made me feel awful was when my mother was asking him a question and he was like, “no that’s fat, you can just see that it’s fat!” So he was basically calling me fat. In the mirror, I don’t see myself as being fat, I maybe curvy, but not fat. Anyway, now I feel awful and my self esteem feels lower than it already is. What should I do?
Also, I wear a size 7 and 9 pants in juniors so I don’t think I’m fat.
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Answer by mrs.joans.
Don’t believe it then! Your regular doctor knows you best, so you shouldn’t believe this other one that you’ve only met once! Don’t worry about it, if you don’t see yourself as fat, it’s okay.
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